...it has been the practice of society (a group of people) to make it their business to choose what individuals (that society has no personal knowledge about) should desire. Then, when those who voice or exhibit their opposition to society's choices, they are considered some sort of non-conformists or deviates.
An example of this is the wearing of jeans or pants by women in the 1900's when society was pressuring women to continue the wearing dresses. There have been other more recent changes like men wearing earrings and other jewelry. Tattoos were once a man's sign of his masculinity and now women are sporting tattooed designs in their skin. Women are sharing the barber shops and beauty salons with men for their short or long hair and nail care. So, those who think stiletto heels are just a choice for women, don't really know the desires men also have. More at
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